Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Dogs

  • Dogs are not our whole life,but they make our lives whole.
  • If it wasn't for dogs, some people would never go for a walk.
  • A dog, I will maintain, is a very tolerable judge of beauty, as appears from the fact that any liberally educated dog does,in a general way, prefer a woman to a man.
  • If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went.
  • Dogs feel very strongly that they should always go with you in the car,in case the need should arise for them to bark suddenly at nothing right in your ear.
  • If your dog doesn't like someone,you probably shouldn't either.
  • Dogs are better than human beings because they know but do not tell.

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Disguise

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.
-Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Thursday, January 25, 2007

Imagination

Limitations live only in our minds. But if we use our imaginations, our possibilities become limitless.
-Jamie Paolinetti

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

The Real Thing

When looking for someone to settle down with , one keeps asking oneself , "Is this the right person ?" Today while surfing the internet I came upon something which I think perfectly said it all...

"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep...

Wait for a boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.. The one who turns to his friends and says,' that's her'. "

Monday, January 22, 2007

Women

The house does not rest upon the ground, but upon a woman.

-Mexican Proverb

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Family

Other things may change us, but we start and end with family.

The most powerful ties are the ones to the people who gave us birth , it hardly seems to matter how many years have passed, how many betrayals there may have been, how much misery in the family : We remain connected, even against our wills.

-Anthony Brandt

Saturday, January 20, 2007

Humour

Through Humour, you can soften some of the worst blows that life delivers. And once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be, you can survive it.

-Bill Cosby


Sunday, January 14, 2007

Absence

There is one pain I often feel, which you will never know. It's caused by the absence of you.

-Dedicated in memory of my late Father.

Monday, January 08, 2007

Freedom

Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
-Mahatma Gandhi

Sunday, January 07, 2007

Epitaph

I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken, and the one that could always brighten up your day even if she couldn't brighten her own.

Monday, January 01, 2007

Advice for the New Year

Be who you are, and say what you feel, cause' those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
-Dr. Suess

Saturday, December 16, 2006

Risk

To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure , but risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Generosity

What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world remains and is immortal.
-Albert Pine

Thursday, December 07, 2006

I’ve learned that :-

  • Days are long, but life is short.
  • I can’t change the past, but I can let it go.
  • People treat me, the way I allow them to treat me.
  • Whatever I enjoy doing, I do well.
  • If you smile at people , they will almost always smile back.
  • That a person’s greatest need is to feel appreciated.
  • The only time I want to sleep late is when I can’t.
  • The best way to appreciate something is to be without it for a while.
  • To get the right answer, you have to ask the right questions.
  • Being through tough times does not necessarily make a person tougher. It’s not what you've been through that matters, its how you came through it.
  • The ability to laugh when life gets you down is the only thing that can help you get over all obstacles.
  • Being good looking might give you an audience, but after fifteen minutes, you better know something.
  • Having a supportive family and good friends can help you overcome anything.
  • Being bigger doesn’t necessarily mean being stronger.
  • Most women are emotionally stronger than men.
  • One of the greatest joys in life is to be greeted by a pet .
  • Good food and chocolate can cheer me up like nothing else.
  • Being hard working might not give you immediate results but hard work pays off eventually.
  • Deciding whom you’ll marry is the most important decision you’ll ever make.
  • Most of the things I worry about never happen.
  • No one has a clue about what the stock market is going to do.
  • The greatest challenge in life is to decide what’s important and to disregard everything else.
  • You shouldn’t fight a battle, if there’s nothing to win.
  • You should never be too busy to say “Please” and “Thank you”.
  • You can’t judge people by the way they look.
  • You can’t throw mud without getting some on yourself.
  • A person is only as good as his or her word.
  • It doesn’t cost anything to be nice.
  • Nothing of value comes without effort.
  • Trust is the single most important factor in all relationships.
  • Silent company is often more healing than words of advice.
  • If you care about someone, it shows.
  • More comfort doesn’t necessarily mean more happiness.
  • Life sometimes gives you a second chance.
  • The worst pain is watching someone you love in pain.
  • When someone tells you that it’s the principle of the thing and not the money, it’s usually the money.
  • Sometimes I just need to be hugged.
  • You never really know your friends until you live with them.
  • I still have a lot to learn



Wednesday, December 06, 2006

Revenge

Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.
-Confucius

Monday, December 04, 2006

Impossible

IMPOSSIBLE IS JUST A BIG WORD THROWN AROUND BY SMALL MEN WHO FIND IT EASIER TO LIVE IN THE WORLD THEY'VE BEEN GIVEN THAN TO EXPLORE THE POWER THEY HAVE TO CHANGE IT.
IMPOSSIBLE IS NOT A FACT. IT'S AN OPINION.
IMPOSSIBLE IS NOT A DECLARATION. IT'S A DARE.
IMPOSSIBLE IS POTENTIAL.
IMPOSSIBLE IS TEMPORARY.
IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING.
- Adidas

Friday, December 01, 2006

Temptation

Lead me not into temptation; I can find the way myself.
-Rita Mae Brown.

Thursday, November 30, 2006

Inspiring

Watched Oprah this afternoon and was really inspired by some truly amazing people and their amazing lives. I don’t think I’ve been so inspired in a while.

Melissa Etheridge was on the show, she is a singer and a cancer survivor. Melissa talked about her fight against cancer, the chemotherapy, her fears and the anguish at being diagnosed with cancer. Her pain and her anguish was so real, that it almost reduced me to tears, but when she talked about how she fought back and got through it all you could almost see her spirit waging a war and winning. She sang at the Oscars this year, and since she was undergoing chemotherapy at the time and losing her hair, she just shaved her head instead. So this completely bald but beautiful woman, took what life gave her and made the most out of it. We could all learn a lot from that. Truly truly amazing.

My favorite song, from Melissa’s latest album is “I run for life”. Really neat lyrics… here’s a stanza from the same…


“It's a blur since they told me about it
How the darkness had taken its toll
And they cut into my skin and they cut into my body
But they will never get a piece of my soul
And now I'm still learning the lesson
To waken when I hear the call
And if you ask me why I am still running
I'll tell you I run for us all

I run for hope
I run to feel
I run for the truth
For all that is real
I run for your mother your sister your wife
I run for you and me my friend I run for life”

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Contentment

Until you make peace with who you are, you'll never be content with what you have.
-Doris Mortman

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

The Train Ride

Asha was tired, it had been a long tiring weekend. She was really looking forward to getting back home, back to her own room, her own bed. She wished the train was on time. She felt it was time she told Ajit that he should look for a job in Bangalore. These weekend commutes were really getting to her. But she kept telling herself that this was important for Ajit’s career and it wasn’t that she didn’t enjoy spending time with her husband, she just wanted to relax on the weekends and get some time for herself .

Asha frowned and looked down the platform there was no sign of the train, the platform was crowded, with people sitting on the floors, on the broken cement benches, on their luggage and on any flat surface. It was noisy too, with vendors trying to sell their wares, street urchins begging and the occasional announcement by the Indian Railways that no one could understand. She heard foot steps, she turned slightly it was Ajit. In his hands he held two plastic glasses of hot coffee, she smiled gratefully and took one glass from him.

“Is the train on time?”, she asked.

Ajit smiled, “Yes, don’t worry it’s on time, should be here in five minutes. You should reach Bangalore by 10.00 pm.”

Asha heaved a sigh of relief, she just didn’t have the energy to wait indefinitely for a train today. She looked around the platform again, her eyes lingering on the magazines in the bookstall. She wondered whether she should pick up something to read, then decided against it, she was really tired and could do with a nap.

“Here comes the train. It seems to be exactly on time, I guess even the Indian Railways is frightened of being late when it comes to my wife.” Ajit chuckled.

They looked at each other and smiled, each remembering how they had, had long fights during their courtship period as Ajit had always been late for their weekend rendezvous. Now it seemed like so long back, almost another life time.

Ajit grabbed the small weekend bag, and helped Asha board the train. She had a seat in the AC Chair car section of the train.

“Call me as soon as you reach home, ok?”, Ajit insisted on his wife reporting her activities at constant intervals.

Asha nodded, it had become a routine.

As the train pulled out of the station, she waved at her husband and thought of how the whole procedure would repeat again after a weeks gap. She sighed and then made a conscious decision not to think about it any further. She could already feel a head ache coming on. She looked in her bag for an asprin, luckily she had one left, she picked up the bottle of Bisleri water that Ajit had bought for her at the station and took a sip, swallowing the medicine with it. Then she stretched her feet and went off to sleep.

When Asha woke up she was dis-oriented, it was dark outside and she had forgotten she was on the train. She looked around and found the Ticket collector.

“Excuse me, can you please tell me which the next station is?”

“Next station, Cantonment”, said the ticket collector as he walked past in a hurry.

Asha was relieved, she got up and stretched her feet, picked up her bag and walked to the door. She loved standing near the door and always made it a point to get up a little before the train reached her station.

As the train pulled into the station, Asha smiled to herself, coming back home always made her happy. She got off the train and started walking, the platform was deserted, cold and wet. November rains in Bangalore always made the weather chilly, she shivered, and pulled on her jacket.

Then she heard footsteps and an out of breath voice asking anxiously, “Excuse me, Is this the last station?”.

Asha turned, it was a young woman around twenty five years of age, “No, the last station is city station, get back on the train”, she said.

The woman didn’t look convinced, “Are you sure this isn’t the last station?”

Asha smiled, “Yes, I’m sure, the next station is city station and that is the last station”.

As the woman looked back at the train hesitatingly, the train started pulling out of the station.

The woman now tried to make an attempt to get back on the train but it had gathered speed. Asha looked at her and made a mental note of how strange it was that most people only realized that they wanted something when it was too late.

The woman looked flustered now and suddenly burst into tears. Asha walked up to her, she felt sorry for her. She knew how it felt to be alone and lost in a strange city.

“Hey, don’t cry, you just need to take an auto to the city station. Is someone meeting you there? It’s pretty late.” Asha said, looking at her watch.

The young woman lifted her tear stained face, “My husband said he would be waiting for me at the last station. This is my first trip to Bangalore.”

“Well, don’t worry then, its not far. Come on, I’ll drop you, my car and driver will be in the parking lot”. Asha had stopped relying on the auto drivers a long time ago, she hated being at their mercy.

The young woman nodded, but her face was expressionless. She still seemed very troubled by her predicament. Asha decided to give her time to recover her composure.

When they reached the city station, it was deserted except for some porters who were taking a nap while waiting for the late night trains to come in. Asha and the young woman walked up and down the platform but there was no sign of the young woman’s husband. It was already eleven ‘o clock. Asha decided to check with the station master. The station master was a helpful friendly old man. He said no one had been here looking for a young woman but perhaps her husband had been delayed.

The young woman suddenly came out of her reverie,

“I’ll be fine now, Thank you for dropping me. Please don’t wait. You’ve been very kind to me, I’ll never forget this.”

Asha smiled, “No problem. Take care then, I hope your husband comes soon.”

Asha thanked the station master and left. She slowly walked back to her car, it had been a very very long day. She was looking forward to getting home and having a hot bath and some food.

After a week, Asha was back at the station returning from Chennai and as she jumped off the train and started walking towards the exit, she heard a familiar voice say,

”Excuse me, Is this the last station?”.