Tuesday, February 19, 2008

With Power comes Responsibility

When a person takes up a position of responsibilty they must realise that with it comes the onus of acting in a mature and sensible fashion for the great good of the group and admitting your mistakes when you are wrong.Yesterday for the first time in my life I met an individual who was so incapable of taking responsibility for her actions that it was appalling. Inside of admitting that she had made a mistake she played the famous blame game where she pointed fingers at people who were not even present and could not stand up for themselves, then she screamed and accused people who were present for her mistake and finally went on to crying and creating a scene to get sympathy. And the sad part is, men are so weak that when they see a woman crying irrespective of what she has done, all other women present are at fault because we made her cry. I detest people who use tears to get their way, if one is so weak then one should not take up positions of responsibility. It is sad to think that a person can behave so childishly and then expect people to respect them.If one is planning to get into an organisation and behave in such a juvenile fashion then it is very clear that they are not going to get very far in life.

Also what is even more horrifying is that some men are completely spineless, one day they are your friends the next day they change their loyalties because it's convenient.I was so disappointed yesterday to see two of my "so called friends" behaving in a rude, aggressive manner for no reason when all we were trying to do was have a polite civilised conversation with the weak woman. No one was expecting anyone to take sides, but they did and they made it very clear.

These two guys acted like body guards and were refusing to let anyone talk to the weak woman. They just made things worse by constantly answering for her and shielding her from the entire group who wanted some concrete answers from her. Funny how people will jump to help the weak and ridicule the strong, just because we all can't stoop to that level and cry like idiots. They say that some people will get out when they hit rock bottom, others will begin to dig. These guys have started digging.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Amazing .. Well captured ! this society always considers the smart and strong women as anti social elements. But, the evolved men and women will bow down to the deserving not to these hydro-women !! :)

Popsickle said...

Thank you sweetheart ! Finally a kindred spirit !